Went to the washroom to cleanup this morning... The day was bright with silvery streaks of morning sun... It was a peaceful morning... Yet, a shout from the ground floor wiped that scene out... I look down and saw a man with tattered jeans yelling and shouting at someone's front door... He sounded very angry... To be accurate, i noticed his mad and bewildered look... He was finding for his wife who, it seemed, did not want to see him... He banged on the door... I felt quite nervous as he wasn't supposed to be in the female's hostel... Thankfully, my warden came out to investigate the commotion and asked for the man's immediate departure... He was stubborn as he stay put at his spot and started to argue that his family affairs has nothing to do with the warden...
It was freaky watching two grown ups shouting negotiations with each other: one asking for the other's leaving, while the other asking for the permission to bang down the door of his wife...At first, i thought that maybe it was some normal argument between the husband and wife that prompted the man in search of his wife's in-house training residence... yet, things sounded a little scary as the man said: "My wife has a lot of money with her, yet she refused to see me...I'm very angry, she is my possession, i have the right to see her!" I felt pity for the wife, i'm sure she is scared to death as a tyrant husband came staking her out just for money... These sort of man should be sentenced to eternal life in the jail... Hey, seriously, she is his wife not a money making machine.. If the warden didn't put her foot firm on this matter, i'm sure there will be a bloody abuse case in the hostel itself.... He eventually left, frustrated and unsatisfied...
Women should really find a good husband with an upright conscience and a clear civilised mind, or they'll end up tied with the wicked person till death...(he doesn't necessary need to be very rich or loaded either)... Or better still, stay single if there are no more good ones out there...We, women can still live without the presence of men in our lives, especially if there are no more goody guys around... Abuse cases would be greatly reduced if women know how to pick their hubbies... Smokers, gamblers, gangsters, jobless and sexist men are a no-no... that is one of the ways to avoid the obvious trouble as the potentials of these males to exert abuse would be higher... About those who 'hide their true colours under the blanket' type, we could not say for sure, yet women should not hurry into a relationship too quickly, take time to observe or seek help from your friends to observe him during your absence, you might never know that he has some form of habits which will make you wish you have never met him... This is a lesson women must learn since the time puberty starts..
P/s: i'm not trying to instigate or having a sexist talk here, but women should really be aware of it for the sake of their own good and happiness in life...
Women could do so much better without these matters to worry about...Hmm, i wonder how's the wife current situation? She should get a divorce immediately... Saves her life from further misery...
Humans live only once in the same lifetime... Embrace and appreciate your life, do not let others spoil or shatter your life, because the only one who have the right to do it is yourself, our life is our own responsibility...They have no right to destroy it!
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